Life’s lesson (which nobody bothers himself to tell you about)#1

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You are having a great time or at least you thought you ‘d had the last time you saw your so-called new friend at a party. It was loud, it was massive, a lot of people you don’t know lurking around, spreading gossip, exchanging pleasantries, you know the usual things, it was a blast. But wait a minute, actually, you were invited to a place where you wouldn’t know anyone else except your two friends and before starting to roll the flashbacks to that night, you realized that you’d been left on your own devises, on your own all night. You remember very vividly now that every time when you tried to have more than 2-minutes conversation with one of them, well it didn’t work out because all you had received was a curt answer or just a nod and that was the exact frigging moment when you realised that you’ve been nothing else but merely tolerated.

 
No, do not look at this and do not accuse me of something like a self-loathing hatred or something. That is not the case here. Because it’s me, it’s you and maybe everyone else you know have been in that situation. It is the time to realize that sometimes, somehow people do not get along , we get so easily annoyed by so many things and not everyone is a precious snowflake. This is the time to feel good about yourself because you are going to turn a new page of your life experience , the tine when you realize that you need to buckle up and leave alone the “friends” who do not like you or who just simply tolerate you. Not out of spite , not out of hatred, but because you need to self-preserve yourself and save your kindness for someone who would really appreciate it. You do not need to chase people or snowflakes when it is not snowing.
You are having a great time or at least you thought you ‘d had the last time you saw your so-called new friends at a party. It was loud, it was massive, a lot of people you don’t know lurking around, spreading gossip, exchanging pleasantries, you know the usual things, it was a blast. But wait a minute, actually, you were invited to a place where you wouldn’t know anyone else except your two friends and before starting to roll the flashbacks to that night, you realized that you’d been left to your own devices, on your own all night. You remember very vividly now that every time when you tried to have more than 2-minutes conversation with one of them, well it didn’t work out because all you had received was a curt answer or just a nod and that was the exact frigging moment when you realised that you’ve been nothing else but merely tolerated. No, do not look at this and do not accuse me of something like a self-loathing hatred or something. That is not the case here. Because it’s me, it’s you and maybe everyone else you know has been in that situation. It is the time to realize that sometimes, somehow people do not get along, we get so easily annoyed by so many things and not everyone is a precious snowflake. This is the time to feel good about yourself because you are going to turn a new page of your life experience , the time when you realize that you need to buckle up and leave alone the “friends” who do not like you or who just simply tolerate you. Not out of spite , not out of hatred, but because you need to self-preserve yourself and save your kindness for someone who would really appreciate it. You do not need to chase people or snowflakes when it is not snowing.
You can keep up showing up in the same place where they hang out, you can contact them every week in vain hope of going out with them and you can wait up for their response as if your life depends on it because you find them so interesting and they fascinate you , but they will probably just laugh it off. Or you can stand up straight, look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself “Do I need this?” , and end it up at one, rip off the bandage and move on, not wasting your time, energy and attention on someone who does not care. Because the ones who care, the ones who truly hold you dear will respond to your messages, to your calls, and even if they are too busy they will eventually show up, because they know the meaning of the time and they know how to give and receive attention. So, ignore the things they can say about you, that you are too indignant and too proud, you preserve yourself and you learn to follow only those who want to follow you,too.

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